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I am what I am and what I will be


The isle of dumb is like a case of medicine


They live in peace, as long as they can remain ignorant to the things they do not understand. Doesn’t mean that it does not exist.


There is a difference between knowing the path; and walking the path.


There is no right or wrong, only what is true.


What did Spider-Man say; with great power comes great responsbility


The mind is it’s own place, and in itself can make heaven of hell. a hell of heaven


Let them hate, as long as they hear me


Life is not fair; that's why there are different bra sizes


“Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds. The mediocre mind is incapable of understanding the man who refuses to bow blindly to conventional prejudices and chooses instead to express his opinions courageously and honestly.”

 
 
 




What’s in a Label, and Why They Are Important in the Fetish/BDSM Community

 

   I am a bottom, submissive, gimp, enslaved person…so many labels; how do I figure out who I am?

 

As humans, we wear many different masks. You could be Alpha during the day but love to cross-dress during the evening, or you may even love wearing women’s panties during the day.

So, how do you figure out where you are on the Fetish spectrum?  And why is it so important to know?  Asking yourself some reflective questions should help you figure out.

Do I enjoy serving but do not enjoy pain? What if you love to top occasionally?  Do all your desires center around sexual feelings? 

 

Figuring out who you are makes it easier to understand what your kinks are.  It helps the person topping you know where your headspace is at.  Below is a link to a BDSM test; it’s a great place to start.

 

 

It is also just as important to understand the terminology so you can express yourself clearly and in detail about what you like, your hard limits, and what areas you would like to explore.

 

 

Below is a link to a good BDSM glossary. 

 

 

 
 
 
mschellenyc

Welcome to La Web...Enter if you Dare


After months of preparing, it's finally ready. Check under the La Web tab for more photos.


This also means I can now create more content. Any one interested in doing content, masks are okay, must fill out the intake form.

(a nominal fee is incurred)



Some of the perks/equipment of having my own space, La Web.


* Private Manhattan Location

* 24/7 Access

* Full Bondage Table/Cage

* Available for Overnights

* F*cking Machine

* Violet Wand

* TFF

* Milking Machine

* Sybian


 
 
 
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